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Women want sex too
How men can step up their game in the bedroom
I am sick of it. Endless books on marriage and how couples can build intimacy etc. Over the course of my marriage, I have received couples counselling, read lots of books, online blogs, articles and attended conferences, seminars, retreats etc. Advice is everywhere and coming out of my ying/yang. While it has been good information, it all fails to address one particular topic. From day one, women are fed the notion that a man’s priority is sex. It is his number 1, 2 and 3 need.
Women are told not to deprive their man and to be active and willing participants in the bedroom. They are told to make an effort to take care of themselves as men are visual creatures. Men are told to slow down and listen to their wives and what they need. To offer non-sexual touch and not treat her like a sex object. Practically every source of info out there addresses how women are to get over their resistance to regular intercourse with husbands so they can have a deeper, more intimate marriage/relationship.
Hell yes, but what about when the shoe is on the other foot. There is little to nothing telling men how to get over their resistance to regular intercourse with their wives. More women today are struggling with men who have the lower libido.
